Adaptable | Behavior Explained
I’m Kelly O’Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I’m a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we’re all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the ”life stuff” and ”emotional vocabulary” that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I’ve learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There’s a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.
Episodes

Thursday Jan 02, 2025
Lessons and Growth from Season 1 of Adaptable
Thursday Jan 02, 2025
Thursday Jan 02, 2025
Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Join us as we reflect on the incredible journey of Season 1 of Adaptable | Behavior Explained! From thought-provoking conversations to personal growth insights, this season has been a transformative experience for everyone involved.
In this video, we dive into:
✅ Key takeaways from our most impactful episodes.
✅ The lessons that shaped the journey.
✅ How challenges turned into opportunities for growth.
Thank you for being part of the Adaptable | Behavior Explained community. Your support has made this season unforgettable. 🙌 Let us know in the comments which lessons resonated with you most or how the podcast has inspired you.
I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!
I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.
-- Links --
https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc
https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo
https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/

Wednesday Jan 01, 2025
Rapid Fire Questions with Kelly from Season 1 of Adaptable
Wednesday Jan 01, 2025
Wednesday Jan 01, 2025
Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Get ready to learn more about Kelly as we put her in the hot seat with a fun round of rapid-fire questions! All questions from viewers and comments from Season 1. Like, comment, and let us know what other questions you'd like answered! 🔥
I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!
I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.
-- Links --
https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc
https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo
https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/

Friday Dec 13, 2024
The Impact of Sexual Abuse on Survivor's Lives
Friday Dec 13, 2024
Friday Dec 13, 2024
Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Sexual abuse leaves deep and lasting scars that affect survivors' lives in profound ways. In this video, we explore the emotional, psychological, and social challenges survivors often face, including trauma, trust issues, and self-esteem struggles. We also discuss the journey toward healing, the importance of support systems, therapy and available resources for survivors. Our goal is to shed light on this sensitive topic, create awareness, and foster empathy and understanding. Whether you’re a survivor, a supporter, or simply seeking to learn more, this video is a step toward building a compassionate and informed community.
💡 Resources and Support: If you or someone you know is affected by sexual abuse, please seek help.
Contact - National Sexual Assault Hotline (USA): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
Let’s break the silence, support survivors, and encourage healing. 💜
👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to join the conversation.
I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!
I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.
-- Links --
https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc
https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo
https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/

Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
Why People Cheat: Understanding Infidelity
Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Why do people cheat? Is it about love, attraction, or something deeper? In this video you get to here from a licensed therapist, break down the common reasons behind infidelity, exploring emotional, psychological, and situational factors. Whether you're looking to heal from betrayal or understand human behavior better, this conversation sheds light on the complexities of relationships and trust.
💡 Topics Covered:
- Emotional disconnect and unmet needs
- Thrill-seeking and impulsivity
- Statistics
- Relationship patterns and past trauma
- How to navigate and rebuild trust after infidelity
📌 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this video if it resonates with you. Together, we can create healthier relationships and better understanding.
I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!
I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.
-- Links --
https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc
https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo
https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/

Tuesday Dec 03, 2024
Holiday Gone Wrong: Lessons Learned
Tuesday Dec 03, 2024
Tuesday Dec 03, 2024
Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, I share a true story about how a seemingly perfect holiday turned into a stressful, chaotic experience—and the valuable lessons we can all take from it. Whether it’s family drama, unmet expectations, or the pressure to create "the perfect day," the holidays can be a challenging time for many of us.
👉 Have you had a holiday go off the rails? Share your story in the comments! Let’s support each other in creating more meaningful celebrations.
🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more tips on navigating life’s challenges with resilience and mindfulness!
I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!
I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.
-- Links --
https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc
https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo
https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/

Friday Nov 15, 2024
Bridging the Gap: Mental Health and Support for Public Safety Heroes part 1
Friday Nov 15, 2024
Friday Nov 15, 2024
Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we delve into the mental health challenges that public safety heroes – including police officers, firefighters, EMTs, and other first responders – face daily in their line of duty. These brave individuals confront high-stress situations, trauma, and pressure, which can deeply impact their mental well-being. We’ll discuss the importance of mental health awareness, available support resources, and practical strategies for coping with the unique demands of public safety professions.
I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!
I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.
-- Links --
https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc
https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo
https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/

Monday Nov 11, 2024
Parenting Tips for Raising Teens
Monday Nov 11, 2024
Monday Nov 11, 2024
Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Raising teens can be challenging, especially when they’re going through tough or rebellious phases. In this video, we’re sharing practical strategies to help you better connect with your teenager, set healthy boundaries, and navigate the ups and downs of adolescence with more confidence and calm. We’ll discuss proven techniques for managing conflicts, fostering open communication, and understanding the underlying emotions that might be driving their behavior. Whether your teen is struggling with mood swings, school issues, or communication breakdowns, these tips are designed to make parenting a little easier and help you build a stronger, more positive relationship with your teen.
I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!
I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.
-- Links --
https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc
https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo
https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/

Tuesday Nov 05, 2024
Welcome to the Shit Show: The Truth about Being a Single Parent - Part 2
Tuesday Nov 05, 2024
Tuesday Nov 05, 2024
Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Being a single parent is a journey full of highs and lows, and in this video, we’re uncovering the raw and real truth about what it’s really like. This episode dives deep into the challenges and rewards of single parenthood.
Whether you're a single mom, dad, or just curious about the reality of parenting alone, this honest discussion is for you. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it.
Part 2 of 2
I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!
I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.
-- Links --
https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc
https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo
https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/

Additional Advanced Trainings
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Feeling State Addiction Protocol-Robert Miller
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Recent Traumatic Episode Protocol-Maria Masciandaro
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Mindful Resonance with EMDR Therapy-Irene Siegel
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Treating First Responders and Betrayal Trauma with EMDR-Robbie Tapia
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Treating Complex Trauma with EMDR Therapy: Working with the Body and Attachment -Deany Laliotis
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Treating Early Attachment Wounds with Sensorimotor and EMDR Therapy-Lana Epstein
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EGO State Therapy, Healing the Heart of Trauma and Dissociation-Carol Forgash
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Emotion Focused Couples Therapy Externship-Susan Johnson
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The Art and Science of Love Gottman 2 Day Workshop
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Implicit Trauma Protocol Training-Katie O’Shea
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Healing the Wounds of Attachment and Rebuilding Self-Deany Laliotis
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Structural Dissociation Training-Sara Jenkins
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Dance of Attachment: An EMDR Relational Approach - Deany Laliotis
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Relational EMDR Therapy: Taking the Journey to the Next Level - Deany Laliotis
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Simplifying Complex PTSD: New Treatment Approaches and EMDR 2.0 - Ad de Johngh, Ph.D and Suzy Matthijssen, Ph.D
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Treating First Responders and Military with EMDR Therapy: Foundations for Effective EMDR Treatment - Dr E.C. Hurley
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US Journal International Conference and Trauma and Addiction 2019 - Bessel Van der Kolk, Janina Fisher Ph.D, Alan Downs Ph.D.
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EMDRIA ANNUAL CONFERENCES 2019, 2017, 2015, 2013